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Is My Relationship Toxic? The Signs You Need to Know

Toxicity isn't always obvious. Here are the patterns worth paying attention to.

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THE TALKING STAGE HAS REPLACED DATING — And Experts Say It's Costing Us

— BY OUR OPINION EDITOR

The indefinite 'talking stage' keeps both parties emotionally invested without commitment. Psychologists say it prolongs uncertainty to an extent that damages attachment security.

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4 IN 10 COUPLES CREDIT 'STUPID GAMES' With Saving Their Relationship

— BY OUR RELATIONSHIPS EDITOR

Couples who regularly play games together report that structured fun creates a 'repair pathway' during periods of emotional distance.

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ASTROLOGY SEARCHES HIT RECORD HIGH During Autumn Cuffing Season

— BY OUR DIGITAL TRENDS EDITOR

Search data shows a 180% spike in 'zodiac compatibility' queries every October, with Chinese and Mayan astrology growing fastest among 22-30 year-olds.

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COUPLES WHO ARGUE ABOUT MOVIES Have More Intellectual Chemistry, Study Finds

— BY OUR ARTS CORRESPONDENT

Disagreement about art and film was found to be a stronger predictor of long-term compatibility than agreement — provided the disagreement stays respectful.

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DELULU MANIFESTATION JOURNALING Surges 400% Among Single Women Under 28

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Journaling practices centred on 'manifesting a partner' have gone mainstream, with adherents reporting higher dating confidence — though not necessarily more dates.

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SUNDAY NIGHT ANXIETY PEAKS FOR SINGLES — But Not For The Reasons You'd Think

— BY OUR PSYCHOLOGY CORRESPONDENT

Sunday night loneliness spikes are driven less by the absence of a partner and more by the social media feed — specifically, couple-centric weekend content.

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